WE ARE often perturbed thinking that why someone is like this or like that, why someone said this or that why someone behaved like this or like that.
we are many times annoyed thinking all this. It hurts when things don’t turn out as per expectations. As we always attach expectations to our actions or inactions and when the result does not match our expectations we are hurt, confused and loose the clarity.
Instead if we never anticipated anything and accepted life the way it came to us, it would reduce the disappointments and dissatisfactions. When we attach our actions to an outcome, the purity of the actions is lost and 2nd if the outcome is not as per expectation it may lead to frustration. Instead if the action was performed without any attachment to the outcome, then the outcome will be accepted on its face without any adverse reaction. This will lead to a balanced mind. diellama, confusions, extremes, indecisivenes, split personalities can be reduced. One can remain focused, single minded, goal oriented and confident. It leads to inner peace; a calm mind from inside can perceive any situation with clarity. There will be lots of transparency inside outside. A person who is one in and out looks vibrant, energetic, unbeatable. A clear mind can never become biased in any circumstances hence can become a better judge for oneself. A peaceful person can spread peace and harmony in the surroundings. A confused mind will create more everywhere. It doses not matter if you are not very constructive, but it matters a lot if you are not destructive. Creativity is essential to survive in a competitive world; mind devoid of trash can be creative. Mind has capacity to manifest anything, give it a chance by providing the required ambience. It may surprise everybody but not you cause you never anticipated anything. You and your mind can co-exist peacefully within yourself by spreading the harmony in surroundings too.
In bad times look at life like an expedition uphill, enjoy it with gusto challenge it, bravo the odds and emerge as a hero, never give up, failure when challenged becomes very weak. Life is an adventure enjoy every unanticipated moment with equal fervor. Life is a magic masaala, its sweet, hot, sour bitter, to soothe all the taste buds. Life is like a colorful rainbow there is a place for all the shades, from bright to dark, multi shaded so that no color goes unenjoyed .
Passion is a must for companionship. If a passion is developed for reading, writing, music, gardening, sport, or any fine art, it will reap great mental benefits. It will be a loyal companion in all the times an alternate vocation, supportive, fills the gaps and makes life a continuous process. Establish a relation with a sunrise or a sunset or rains, because they never ditch, they are the eternal companions, from birth to death and beyond too, ashes to earth and smoke to sky, all back to nature.
